Friday, January 25, 2013

Who Should We Invite to Our Homes?


God is constantly revealing to me that I have so much to learn…from His word, and from my friends. 
I have a dear friend that I have had the pleasure of being in a relationship with since she attended Jobs for Life class. We often ride to church together, and last week as I asked her what she was cooking for Sunday dinner. She named off the usual big “Southern Sunday Dinner” that had my mouth watering. My friend told me that she was making plates for a few homeless men that hang around her apartment complex. I immediately went into a mode of “listen to me, I know best.” I encouraged her to not let strange people into her house, to be careful, and to take their plates outside. Her response to me was “of course I am letting them in—why wouldn't I?” As we were both thinking the other was crazy, I went home and contemplated her words. After much thought, I still thought that she was being careless and not thinking of her own safety. I felt like she needed to listen to me and if she didn't, she was headed for trouble. 
As I was going about my week in my self-righteous thoughts, our staff came together for a time of worship and to delve into scripture together. I was immediately faced with Isaiah 58:7, 
“Is it not to share your bread with the hungry and bring the homeless poor into your house; when you see the naked, to cover him and not to hide yourself from your own flesh?” 
Wow, was I ever convicted. God is leading me to repent  for things I hadn't even realized held me in bondage for so many years. Just when I felt as if I was trudging through life, cultivating relationships by inviting MY FRIENDS into my home, He is showing me that I need to throw away my “A-List Party Invitations” and welcome others to my home and table. How long is it going to take for me to learn how to die to self and live by scripture? A foundational teaching of Scripture is that it is possible to be completely changed through transformed thought patterns. I am choosing to view this circumstance as a call to action. I challenge myself to come out of my comfort zone, trust in God and live as Scripture says I should live--by continuing to journey through imperfect progress. I am so touched by  my relationship with my friend; I continue to learn from her wisdom and her love for me and others. 
Editors's note: The above is written by Cindy Chapple, Jobs for Life grad and admin assistant at Advance Memphis. I think you'll enjoy knowing that shortly after writing this, the below scene occurred in Cindy's living room: a house FULL of people, sharing a meal together. What steps can we take today to live out the truth of Isaiah 58:7?



Thursday, January 17, 2013

A Letter from Phyllis

Phyllis, pictured front right, graduated from Jobs for Life
in December, 2011, and now works at Poplar Point
Health and Rehabilitation.

To my Advance Memphis Family and Overcoming Through Christ group,
First, I want to give honor to God and then to you for helping me make a change in my life. Before I came to Advance Memphis, I knew nothing about God’s unconditional love, faith, hope and the encouragement everyone here has given me. I felt at my age, life was over for me. Who would hire me? And who would love me? 
This school has taught me that I've always been loved by God and there is nothing he won’t do for his children. He knew what I needed, that’s why he sent me to Advance. To me you are all Angels sent by God. I just want you to know (teachers and staff) that I am so grateful to you for not giving up on me, also for your teachings and uplifting words. Now I know my past doesn't define who I am. I now have a full time job and benefits!! The courses I took help me to have confidence on my job and to get along well with my co-workers. I've also been getting complimented on my work by my supervisor and the administrator of the facility thanking ME!! for being a part of their family. 
I pray everyday that God will expand this school building [Advance Memphis] because there are so many of me still out there needing your love and encouragement. Even though my off days prevent me from attending my community groups and church the way I want, I wake up every morning with prayer and the reading of God’s word. When I come home I thank God for everything he’s doing in my life. I sit and read and pray because that’s what keeps my battery charged! 
To God we give the Glory,
Phyllis
P.S. Love you and miss you all. 

Friday, December 28, 2012

2012: Congrats to Our GED Recipients


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Tuesday, December 18, 2012

Andrew and Mike Memphis: 2012 Rap

Each time a Jobs for Life class begins wrapping up for graduation, recognizing the amount of work that the class has completed, Andrew allows them to give him one homework assignment. This rap was his assignment for the last class of 2012, and he performed it at their graduation. The beat for Andrew's rap -- and the second wrap -- were written and performed by one of that days graduating students: Kenneth Chalmers, AKA Mike Memphis. The lyrics to both raps are below. 


Andrew's Rap
This is the last class of twenty twelve
I know this whole class is feelin' themselves [slang for proud]
Mr. Gerald is always the very best dressed
And you know Mr. Charles is too blessed to be stressed
James Cross be keepin that coffee pot hot
I'm proud of all yall that quit smoking pot
I know yall be thinkin my rhymes are lame [slang for uncool]
But com' on, I'm white, and the class is to blame
Ptosha be matchin from her head to her toe
From far away she looks like a rainbow
Terrance started class with a terrorist beard
Martrecia on a bad day is a thing to be feared
LTD, he got his female haters [slang for a person who cannot be happy for another]
Joscelyn and Andre were his chief motivators
Latasha already got her GED
And Nichole brought us a hundred honey buns for free
Valerie looks like an eskimo in that jacket
Andre's so quiet he never once made a racket
Terrika be cheaing cause she already had all the notes
Xavier got shoe strings on the back of his coat
Ms. Barbara went ham in lunch line [slang for being tough]
4 of yall forgot to pay your class fine
Deborah she got caught ghetto dancing in class
Mike and Jamaine they sit on the....same table.
This is the last class of twenty twelve
I know this whole class be feelin themselves!

Memphis Mike's Rap: Roadblocks
written and performed by Kenneth Chalmers (Mike Memphis)

They don't want to see my ball [slang for how I get things done],
they just want to see me fall

I'm go get to where I'm going 
even if I have to crawl
You can handcuff me and put my back against the wall
No matter the situation I'm going to make it through it all
I aint never been a quitter, was born a survivor
Got the heart of David when he took on Goliath
Not a shaky bone in my body I'm a rider
Before gold can shine you gotta take it through the fire
I been there...I done some things in my life brought me pure hell
A couple years ago was sitting in a jail cell
I done some things in my life brought be pure hell
But now I'm out here doing good so you can't tell. 

Monday, December 10, 2012

Crime and Poverty: Part II


give me neither poverty nor riches;
feed me with the food that is needful for me,
lest I be full and deny you
and say, “Who is the LORD?”
or lest I be poor and steal
and profane the name of my God.
  Do not slander a servant to his master,
lest he curse you, and you be held guilty.
There are those who curse their fathers
and do not bless their mothers.
There are those who are clean in their own eyes
but are not washed of their filth.
There are those—how lofty are their eyes,
how high their eyelids lift!
There are those whose teeth are swords,
whose fangs are knives,
to devour the poor from off the earth,
the needy from among mankind. (Proverbs 30:8-14, ESV)

In the last post, we saw the wisdom of the sage who humbly prayed “give me neither poverty… lest I be poor and steal…” The prayer (one of the only prayers in the book) is surely close to the heart of Jesus since it echoes the way he taught us to pray: “Give us today our daily bread…and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil” (Mt 6:9-13). The author knew that temptation for the poor is uniquely complicated and severe, and he knew the depravity of his own heart; thus, he concluded that if he were poor, he himself would likely be a criminal.

If we are wise--if we are biblical--we will conclude the same thing: the reason you and I are not sitting in jail right now has more to do with our economic status than our character and love for Jesus. 

In case we miss this point, in case we actually think there is something superior about ourselves that keeps us from toting guns (or using our bodies, etc.) to make a living illegally, the rest of this passage should sober us, if not embarrass us.

This post will focus on the flipside of the wise man’s prayer: “Give me not riches.”  Before we can understand what we need to learn from this passage, we must understand that as modern day Americans, the middle ground, which the author requests, is not likely.  The prayer is  for “daily bread” (NIV) as an alternative to poverty and wealth, so that if we have enough food for today and tomorrow, then by biblical standards (not American consumer standards which makes us all feel like we don’t have enough), we are rich.  And if we are rich, this means that while we may not all struggle with stealing, we will struggle with something that’s ultimately (as we will see) more pathetic.

The basic sins attached to the wealthy are over-consumption and overconfidence.  “Give me not riches… lest I be full and deny you and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’” Of course those of us who have more than our daily bread aren't robbing people--we don’t need to rob. We don’t even need the Lord! Or at least this is what our lives usually imply. We may not flat out reject Jesus literally through our words, but we do so practically when we live for more money under the pretense of living for God. Based on the structure of this passage, we must see that to the degree that the poor are prone to steal, we are as likely to become addicted to the things money gives us, making wealth ultimate instead of God.

So how well are we fighting the good fight?  A good indicator of whether we've fallen into our demographics’ unique temptation is to think back to the last time we prayed this prayer: “Give me not riches, lest I get too comfortable and reject the Lord.” If it hurts to pray this prayer, we are guilty of idolatry. 

Ouch… I don’t know that I’ve ever prayed against obtaining more money. While I'm being honest, I should also confess that gluttony and skepticism (a form of denying of God), the two sins the author immediately attaches to the wealthy, are two of my biggest ongoing sin struggles. While my poor neighbors are more likely to be caught up in theft, I'm taking pills to combat my high blood pressure and cholesterol because I love food and drink more than honoring Jesus' name.

Now, here’s what’s truly pathetic about those of us who have more than our daily bread. The problem isn't that we tend to struggle with gluttony and/or materialism and self-reliance. These things are bad, but our real problem is that we think our sins are not as bad compared to theft and other kinds of poverty-driven sins.  The author places the sins of the rich on par with the sins of the poor, but with our tendency toward self-righteousness, we actually fool ourselves into thinking our problems aren't as bad.

If we were being truly honest, we would have to admit that we often think there’s something about us--or perhaps something about them--that makes us better. “Well sure, we’re all sinful,” we say, “but these people really need help.” And if we are really blind, we might even go as far as saying “these people need my help.” 

Ever think this? I have, and that’s why the rest of this passage is so humiliating.  Read verse 12 carefully: “There are those who are clean in their own eyes but are not washed of their filth.” Unfortunately, modern translations are produced by members of middle and upper class society and offensive passages like this one are tamed for our polite, cultural preferences.  “Filth” is accurate, but it’s not literal. The Hebrew word צֹאָה either means excrement or vaginal discharge with a focus on the foulness or odor of the organic matter.*  Since even I’m uncomfortable talking about the latter of these two options, I’ll gladly accept this translation: “Wicked progeny judges itself righteous, but did not wash off its anus” (A New English Translation of the Septuagint). This is what the bible says we are like when we think we are superior to others.

Verse 12 is extremely ironic, especially reading it in its context of wealth and poverty. Those of us who are economically self-sufficient struggle with sin just like everyone else. Our depraved hearts may manifest in different ways depending on complex sociological factors; however, in the final analysis, these differences are only superficial--our hearts are all the same. We all need Jesus. If we think differently, if we hold on to the belief that we are somehow different or better, we are like someone who after scrubbing and examining himself, and pridefully thinking he’s done a meticulous job, walks away judging the appearance of others but not realizing his backside is covered with smears.

Along these lines, Jesus criticized the Church of Laodicea: You say, ‘I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.’ But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked” (Revelation 3:17). We think we are better, but as it turns out, we are the ones who really need help.

* Swanson, J. (1997). Dictionary of Biblical Languages with Semantic Domains: Hebrew (Old Testament) (electronic ed.). Oak Harbor: Logos Research Systems, Inc.

Andrew Vincent
andrew@advancememphis.org

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Crime and Poverty: Part 1


We're going to post a short series exploring the links, and perceived links, between crime and impoverished people and their communities. The first post, below, is written by Jobs for Life Coordinator Andrew Vincent. Comments, feedback, and questions can be directed to andrew@advancememphis.org. 

...give me neither poverty nor riches;
feed me with the food that is needful for me,
lest I be full and deny you
and say, “Who is the LORD?”
or lest I be poor and steal
and profane the name of my God.
  Do not slander a servant to his master,
lest he curse you, and you be held guilty.
There are those who curse their fathers
and do not bless their mothers.
There are those who are clean in their own eyes
but are not washed of their filth.
There are those—how lofty are their eyes,
how high their eyelids lift!
There are those whose teeth are swords,
whose fangs are knives,
to devour the poor from off the earth,
the needy from among mankind. (Proverbs 30:8-14)

This passage has a lot to teach us about the links between crime and poverty, and between hypocrisy and wealth. There’s too much to say in one blog post, so I've divided my original post in two separate posts. This one focuses on the prayer of vv.8-9 and the second focuses particularly on vv.12-13. 
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This passage has always puzzled me. Does the author not believe in personal responsibility? Read it again and catch what’s really being said: “give me neither poverty….lest I be poor and steal”; “nor riches…. lest I be full and deny you.” The assumption seems to be that wealth automatically leads to being puffed up and rejecting God, and poverty automatically leads to criminal activity. 

Well, surely the author isn't arguing that all poor people steal and all rich people are atheistic gluttons; however, we can’t dismiss this verse as simply an exaggeration while we overlook what seems obvious to the inspired writer. He prays the way he does for a reason. 

First, he realizes that if he was poor he would be faced with a very unique and difficult set of temptations. Second, he knows that his own heart is no different from that of anyone else, and that if he had to face the temptations of the poor (or the rich), he would probably succumb to them just like so many others do.  

Therefore, he begs God: Don’t let me be poor; I don’t want to be another statistic. Does this prayer seem strange to you too? The reason it has always puzzled me is because thievery, like most other criminal activities for financial gain, seems so evil and so foreign to me. I've prayed hundreds of prayers that God would protect me from lust, but stealing!? My mind goes to pictures of men in ski masks, carrying sawed-off shotguns, terrifying innocent victims for goods they worked hard to earn. When I picture this, I think, who could possibly commit such an evil crime? I honestly can’t imagine myself doing such a thing. 

However, while I can’t imagine myself committing crimes like armed burglary, I also can’t imagine what it’s like
to be hungry and too broke to buy a meal.

I have come to know many people in the inner-city who have both of these experiences as part of their past history. And sadly, I know of at least a few people who, after trying to leave the crime, have gone back to it because of concrete realities of their poverty.  

What’s the difference between me and them? Is it that I know Jesus and they don’t? Is it that I have better character? Am I more strong willed and more resistant to temptation? Are they more depraved?  Biblically speaking, I think the answer is a clear no.  But if I’m being completely honest, it’s really easy for me to slip into this mindset. Thankfully God’s Word reproves my mind and reveals just how much of an arrogant, self-righteous fool I am for thinking that I am somehow different than my neighbors. 

In the last four years of working at Advance, I have had the privilege and the horrific experience of counseling others through times of difficult temptation. I can’t tell you how many graduates have sat in my office crying because they don’t want do sell drugs, break in houses or sleep with a man they don’t love.  They absolutely hate their lifestyle, but they don’t know what else to do. During a lot of these kinds of conversations, the person sitting in my big brown chair is in crisis mode: the landlord just put all their possessions on the sidewalk, the electricity just got turned off, they don’t have any food in the fridge. Then what they say next is really burdensome: “When I got accepted into Advance I knew that this was my chance to change.  Since the first day of class I was determined to quit doing the things I was doing, but since I've been living right, I haven’t been making any money. I’m afraid because I can pick up the phone and have $200 by tonight, but I want to change. I don’t want to do these things anymore. What do you think I should do?”

It’s that moment, faced with the question, “What should I do?”, that snaps me out of my foolish pride and helps me understand
the sincerity of the prayer in Proverbs 30:8-9.
 

Because when I realize that the motivation behind these horrendous criminal acts is bound up in the love of a mother or father and a sincere desire to provide for the needs of their children, I don’t know what I would do if I were in their shoes. I can’t imagine having to make a choice between robbing someone and seeing my children go without.

None of this is meant to excuse another’s sin, and I have no illusions that all crimes are committed in order to provide for children. The proverb still equates stealing with profaning the name of God. In the moments when someone is crying about whether or not to make illegal money, regardless of whether or not it’s for a sincere need such as having their kids have a place to sleep, there is still a right and a wrong decision. There is still personal responsibility to say no to temptation. However, if I think that I would always make the right decisions if I were in someone else's situation, I’m a fool.  

I’m thankful that I don’t have to make the same kinds of decisions many of our neighbors have to make. At the same time, it’s quite unsettling to realize that entire neighborhoods of people have to make these kinds of difficult choices every day. 

There’s a reason why so many of our city’s poor are sitting in jail while the rest of us can’t even imagine ourselves doing the things that got them there.  And the reason is NOT that we are somehow superior.  The only real difference between us and our neighbors is that we aren't the ones who suffer from the poverty; we aren't faced with the same temptations.  

Andrew Vincent
Jobs for Life Coordinator
andrew@advancememphis.org

Friday, October 26, 2012

A Poem from a Graduate


Graduate Wendell Mass wrote two poems (one is below) to honor Advance and his classmates at today's graduation. He says he worked on his writing skills throughout his time in prison, constantly writing songs and poems. We're honored that he brought his creativity to graduation, and we're excited to see what Wendell accomplishes in the coming weeks and months. He is a smart and determined man.

I Appreciate You
There comes a time in everyone's life,
When you are lonely and friends are few.
As a part of Advance Memphis, my days are bright
I want you to know that I appreciate you!

I had begun to feel that no one really cared
Your commitment immediately changed that view
I am so thankful for the time that we shared
I want you to know that I appreciate you!

I am truly blessed that our paths did cross
You have helped to make my gray skies blue
You have made up for everything that I had lost
I want you to know that I appreciate you!

I will miss this class and the instructor's concern 
About my life and the things we go through 
I am so amazed by the things I have learned
I want you to know that I appreciate you!

Since taking this class, I have made new friends
Whose compassion is unconditional and true
With Advance Memphis help, I am sure to win
That is why I will always appreciate you!